Many nannies find it challenging to deal with disrespect while maintaining professionalism. Inspired by a viewer’s comment, we explore this issue to understand the frustrations involved and discuss why it’s important for nannies to maintain a professional demeanour.
Let’s examine a comment we received on our YouTube channel.
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The Viewer’s Comment
One of our viewers shared: “I’m a nanny and I have no issues with being late. Parents are consistently disrespecting my time and tether me around like a ball. So if I’m 10 minutes late, y’all can deal with it. Especially when I’m going above and beyond in all other aspects. I’m far exceeding expectations.”
Breaking Down the Issue
While the frustration expressed in the comment is understandable, being deliberately late can negatively affect a nanny’s career.
Importance of Professionalism
Professionalism encompasses various aspects, including punctuality and consistency. Being late, even by just 10 minutes, can disrupt the parents’ schedule and create unnecessary stress within the household. Respecting the parents’ time is essential, as this creates trust in your abilities.
Setting an Example
As nannies, we are role models for the children we care for. Demonstrating punctuality teaches children valuable lessons about time management and responsibility. Consistently showing up on time sets a positive example for them to follow.
Communicating Concerns
If you feel disrespected and overwhelmed, it’s necessary to communicate these feelings to the parents calmly and effectively. Open dialogue can help you better understand your situation and balance the workload more fairly.
The Power of Reputation
In the nanny world, word of mouth is incredibly powerful. Many nannies secure jobs and positive references through their reputation. Being known as reliable and punctual can lead to better opportunities and glowing references. Conversely, a reputation for being late can damage future job opportunities and prevent families from giving favourable recommendations.
Setting Boundaries
Feeling tethered and disrespected indicates a need for setting boundaries. Clear and open communication with the family about your needs, limits, and boundaries is essential. This ensures you can perform your duties effectively without feeling burnt out.
Being a nanny goes beyond meeting expectations; it involves building strong, respectful relationships with the families you work with. While going above and beyond is amazing, it should not come at the expense of professionalism and punctuality. For nannies, maintaining a professional demeanour and advocating for yourself in a respectful manner is key to long-term success.
Parents should respect the nanny’s time and efforts and recognize their vital role in their children’s upbringing. Mutual respect and open communication are the foundations of a successful nanny-parent relationship.
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